After talking to many New Jersey singles and asking the top qualities they considered an absolute must-have when considering to date a man, some of the answers were predictable, while others were a little surprising. One of the most desired qualities that these single women want in a man is that he must have a job and good work ethics. Many single women didn't care what the job was as long as he had one, they just wanted to know that he was able to maintain a daily job and hold responsibilities. Since most women aren't confined to being housewives nowadays, it doesn't concern them how much money a man makes since she's making her own living. Women are just happy to know he can hold down a steady job and know they won't be the one supporting him.
Another top quality
most New Jersey singles were looking for in a man was that he must be
compassionate. Women want to know that
the man they'll be dating is compassionate not only towards her, but to other
things in life. Whether it is his
career, sports, or other hobbies, being compassionate shows he's capable of
being dedicated and committed to something.
A lot of New Jersey
singles also mentioned that a man that likes children ranks high on their
list. This is obvious because most women
want to have children at some point in their lives, and to them it seems like a
waste of time to pursue a relationship with a man who doesn't share the same
goals and expectations when it comes to family and children. Basically, if a man doesn't want children, it
will be a deal breaker for women who are looking forward to raising a family in
the future.
No big surprise
here, one of the most sought after qualities New Jersey singles look for in a
man is a great sense of humor. Having a
good sense of humor and being able to make a woman laugh is something every
woman wants in a man. Women said that laughter makes them feel good and when a
man can make them feel good, even after a bad day at work, it really relaxes
them and makes them forget about all the bad things for a while.
Religious beliefs
is another quality that most New Jersey singles talked about, of course, this
quality cannot be changed so finding someone with the same beliefs could be
difficult, but is a must. Finding
someone they don't clash heads with over religion is very important to them,
especially if they plan on having kids in the future. Women want a man who shares the same faith as
they do because conflict could arise down the road when it comes to choosing
which faith to raise the children.
Believe it, or not,
another quality that a lot of New Jersey singles were looking for was a man who
has good grammar and spelling. A
well-spoken man displays intelligence and maturity. Women didn't say he had to be a
rocket-scientist or perfect in everything they say or write, but that he had to
know the difference between everyday words such as you're & your, than
& then, etc. Not knowing the
difference between simple words such as these can really be very unattractive.
New Jersey singles
were also looking for a man that can communicate well with them. They want a man who is able to give more than
hasty one word answers. Women love to
talk so they want someone who is there not only listen, but someone who can
give relevant feedback. They don't want
to have one-sided conversations over dinner when they're trying to talk about
their day. It's important that a man
contributes to conversation and lets a woman know how he's feeling as well.
Surprisingly, a lot
of New Jersey singles said that a man's political views play a big role in
dating. They don't want to date someone
who is at the opposite end of the political spectrum as them. Some women believe a few differences could be
interesting for the relationship, but complete opposites are bound to
clash. Many women have issues they feel
strongly about and if the man they're dating doesn't agree with them, it could
cause a lot of conflict in the relationship.
Another quality
that was desired by many New Jersey singles was a man that knows how to show
them love. Women love to be pampered and
told how much they are loved and cared for so it's understandable they need a
man who can them. A man must have the
ability to show a woman he cares for her, not only verbally, but through his
actions as well. From holding hands,
hugging, kissing, or even just being close, it really makes a woman feel
whole.
There's no question
about this one, all New Jersey singles were looking for a man who is loyal to
them. Women want to know they can fully
trust the man they're dating, they want someone to share all their deepest
thoughts and secrets with, not someone they fear will betray them.
New Jersey singles
were very clear when saying they want a man who is confident! Women are highly attracted to men who are
secure in themselves, can handle any situation, and doesn't always seek the
approval of others.
And, the one
everybody has been waiting for... One of the other qualities that wasn't a big
surprise from New Jersey singles was that they want a man with a nice physical
appearance. Women want a man that is
good looking, someone who takes pride in themselves. Every woman agreed that a man should have a
good sense of hygiene, know how to dress, as well as how to present
himself. The preferred body type was
also mentioned, but surprisingly, a lot of women prefer a thicker body type,
and other the more masculine and muscular men.
Many women like to date a guy who is tall because it really makes them
feel secure and protected when they're together. Dental health was also brought up by many
women, they want to be with a guy who has a nice smile and takes care of his
teeth. But, there are a lot of
characteristics that make a man attractive to a woman.
And, last, but
certainly, not least, women want a man with aspirations and goals for the
future. A man with goals and plans for
the future is a huge catch for women, it's extremely attractive. When a man is moving towards something in
life, it shows a woman he's exciting and dedicated. Women don't want to date someone sitting on
their mother's couch being content with their 9-5 job, they want a man who is
always striving to be better in life.
All women want to know they have a secure future with someone who is
always trying to improve themselves and get further ahead in life.
While generally
speaking, most women were looking for a man who possesses qualities that she
has herself. It's no big surprise that
New Jersey singles want to date men who share the same interests, goals, and
expectations in life.
